有一个心理学家做了一个很有意思的实验。他要求一群突验者在周日晚上,把末来七天所要烦恼的事情都写下来,然后投入一个大型的“烦恼箱”。到了第三周的星期日,他在实验者面前,打开这个箱子,逐一与成员核对每项“烦恼”,结果发现其中有九成并未真正发生。 A psychologist made a very interesting experiment. He asked a group of learners to write down all the things they had to worry about for the next seven days on Sunday night before putting into a large “trouble box.” On the third week of Sunday, he opened the box in front of the experimenter and checked each “annoyance” with the members one by one. They found that 90% of them did not actually happen.