在一些家庭里,常见到这样一种现象:家长和孩子在各自单位,人际关系都搞得不错;可就是一到家里,两者却往往合不了拍,有的甚至成了“说话就顶”的对头。不仅做子女的心情不够舒畅,当父母的也常常感到苦恼:觉得养出这般不听话的孩子实在糟心!为什么在自己单位能搞得上和下睦的一个人,在家里却处不好自己的孩子?原因当会很多,不好一概 In some families, it is common to see such a phenomenon: parents and children in their respective units, interpersonal relations are doing well; but is arrived at home, the two are often unable to beat, and some even become a “top of the line ”The opposite. Not only do children feel uncomfortable, when parents are often distressed: I feel so reluctant to raise children so bad! Why in their own units can be made up and down a man, but at home is not good Own children? The reason will be a lot of bad