问:我丈夫有个怪毛病,每次做爱时都要开着灯,让我脱光衣服给他看。他一边摸一边看,很快就能上来情绪。我对此感到很不情愿也很害臊,但从来没有拒绝过他。我想,这种做法很可能对他的性感受有好处……我想知道的是,这样发展下去会不会有什么危险?能不能让他改掉这个毛病? Q: My husband has a strange problem. Every time I have sex, I have to turn on the lights and let me strip their clothes for him. As he watched, he could soon get up and down. I am reluctant and very resentful of this, but I have never rejected him. I think this approach is likely to be good for his sexy ... I want to know is that this development will not be dangerous and can let him get rid of this problem?