他人的一个成功就表明了一条道路的可能,同行的一个成功就昭示了一个群体的前景,如此看来,他人的成功倒是我们心理安全的保障了习惯说来,他人尤其是身边人的成功,对于自己的心理安全是一个严峻的考验。和自己差不多年龄和经历的同学、同事、朋友,突然间发了、富了、成功了,而同样在奋斗着、努力着的自己却还是老样子,缺少变化,这时就会产生和他人的距 The success of one of the others shows the possibility of a road. The success of a peer shows the prospect of a group. In view of this, the success of other people protects us from the habit of being psychologically secure, and the success of others, especially the people around us. For their own psychological safety is a severe test. With my age and experience of classmates, colleagues, friends, all of a sudden made, rich, successful, but also the same struggle, but their own efforts are still the same, lack of change, then it will have and others distance