你若安好,固然很好。可我何必,陪你到老。某日聊起单恋的话题。有人说起目前网络上很流行的一句话:你若安好,备胎到老——几乎完美概括“单恋”的意义。女孩们纷纷表示对这句话的感动和赞许,更有人称这种态度才是“真爱”。想想看,对一个人从一而终到这种程度:默默守候,甘做备胎,不计名分,莫问前程,实在是世间难得的深情之人。第一个故事来自一个男人。他大学时爱上一个女孩子,从此鞍前马后,整整付出了十四年。妈妈已经为他的婚事愁白了头,但懂得儿子的心事,每次听到那首《让我欢喜让我忧》的时候就 If you are well, it is good. But why should I accompany you to the old. One day talking about unrequited love topic. Some people talk about the current popular online sentence: If you are good, spare tire to the old - almost perfect summed up the meaning of “unrequited love.” Girls have said that these words moved and praised, some people even call this attitude is “true love ”. Think about it, to a person from end to end this level: silently waiting, willing to do spare tire, regardless of celebrity, Mo asked the future, it is rare in the world affectionate person. The first story comes from a man. He fell in love with a girl in college, from saddle before the horse, a full fourteen years. Mum has been pale for his marriage, but understand the son’s mind, every time I hear the song “let me joy and worry about me” time