人们在工作和生活中,难免遭遇“闲言碎语”。应对方式归结起来就是两种:一是表现出极大的反感和不满,甚至伺机打击报复;二是从中反思自己的工作、生活和交往,检点自身有无欠妥之处。应对方式不同,结果也必然不同。对前者来说,有两种可能:其一,“闲言碎语”并非空穴来风,如此处理只能使自己在错误的泥坑里愈陷愈 People in the work and life, inevitably encounter “gossip ”. The coping style is summed up in two ways: First, it shows great aversion and dissatisfaction, and even opportunistic retaliation; second, it reflects on its own work, livelihoods, and contacts, and examines its own defects. Different coping styles, the result is inevitable. For the former, there are two possibilities: First, “gossip ” is not groundless, so that the treatment can only make yourself in the wrong mud pit more