经济严冬钱难赚。物化社会友难交。“人一生最痛苦的事情是,人死了,钱没花掉;人一生最最痛苦的事情是,人还活着。钱花没了。”这是2009年春晚小品《不差钱》中小沈阳和赵本山的台词。“钱不是问题,就缺朋友。”这是2009年的贺岁片《非诚勿扰》中秦奋的感叹。无论赚钱还是交朋友,都关乎个人社会地位和自我存在感。经过改革开放 Economic hard winter earn money. Physical and chemical social friends difficult to pay. “The most painful thing in life is that people died, the money did not spend; the most painful thing in life is that people are alive. ” This is the 2009 Spring Festival Evening Pieces “not bad money” Small Shenyang and Zhao Benshan lines. “Money is not a problem, it is missing friends. ” This is the 2009 New Year film “You Are the One” Qin Fen sigh. Whether making money or making friends, it is about personal social status and self-existence. After the reform and opening up