不要自责。很多患者尤其是年轻患者,经常会问这样的问题:“我是如此善良,为什么让我患肿瘤?”这样的想法只会带来三个心理结果:一是愤愤不平,认为上帝对自己不公平,人间对自己不公平;二是无限自责,认定自己或者家人一定做了什么恶事;三是极度悔恨,早知道如此应该更加善良一些,助人更多一些,更加……实际上,人是否得病与人性善恶没有必然关系。学会乐观。有人说“三分之 Do not blame yourself. Many patients, especially young patients, often ask such questions as: ”I am so kind and why do I get a tumor?“ There are only three psychological consequences of this idea: First, indignation, thinking that God is right Second, unlimited indefatigability, identify themselves or their family must have done something evil; Third, extreme remorse, I knew so should be more good, to help others more, and more ... ... In fact, There is no necessary relationship between human being’s disease and human nature’s good and evil. Learn to be optimistic. Some people say ”thirds