获得完美的性生活,需要多方面的条件。其中很重要的一点便是能敏锐地解读和正确对待双方的性信号,一般情况下男性在需要性爱时能够直接地申请或表明态度;而女性受心理特征的影响,或羞涩或含蓄.在她希望得到性爱时,往往采用暗示的方式,而不直接了当的表达。然而,正如法国学者西蒙娜·德·波娃发现的情形一样:“许多男人根本不费心去了解与他同睡的女人到底是渴望性生活,还是被动接受。那么丈夫如何捕捉和关注妻子的性信号,便成为一个关键问题。” Getting a perfect sex life requires many conditions. One of the most important points is that you can acurately interpret and correctly treat the sexual signals of both parties. In general, men can directly apply for or show their attitudes when they need sex. In contrast, women are either shy or implicit in psychological characteristics. When you want to get sex, you often use the implied way rather than the direct expression. However, as the French scholar Simone de Popova found out: “Many men simply do not bother to know exactly whether a woman sleeping with him is sexually craving or passive, and how the husband catches and watches his wife’s sexuality The signal becomes a key issue. ”