在学校从事心理咨询的绝大部分是教师,教师的角色身份可能会影响咨询中的帮助关系。在实践过程中,我感到一个有成效的咨询师必须摆脱权威的教师角色身份,而且应具备一些作为心理咨询师必备的心理品质,诸如热情、尊重、理解、接纳等。他必须看到每个学生都是值得热心帮助的,学生的缺点是可以理解的(不是宽恕),为了更有效地做好咨询工作,应该热情鼓励学生在思想上、 The vast majority of counselors in schools are teachers, and the role of teachers can affect the counseling relationship. In practice, I feel that a successful consultant must get rid of the authority of the role of teacher, and should have some psychological qualities as psychological counselors, such as passion, respect, understanding, acceptance and so on. He must see that every student deserves to be enthusiastic and helpful. The disadvantages of the students are understandable (not forgiveness). In order to do a good job in counseling more effectively, students should be encouraged to be mentally,