孝顺也是需要智慧的。只有给老人最好的尊严,让他觉得自己的存在尚有价值,才是真正的孝顺。母亲去世以后,老家便只剩下年近70岁的父亲。我不忍他孤零零地留在乡下,便把他接到桂林跟我们一起生活。老公是个极敦厚的人,对老人自然孝顺,刚上幼儿园的儿子受我们的影响,对外公也非常恭敬。由于工作比较清闲,那段时间,我总是提前下班,尽量多陪老人说话。本以为,这样舒坦的日子会让父亲满意,然而,几天新鲜劲儿过后,老人家就嚷嚷着要回老家了。我想,一定是我上班的时候老人独自在家太寂寞吧!那么,除了给他一个舒适的家,还得给他创造一个良好的环境,帮他和 Filial piety also needs wisdom. Only giving the best dignity to the elderly and letting him feel that there is value in his existence is the true filial piety. After my mother’s death, my father will have only nearly 70-year-old father. I could not bear to stay alone in the country, so he took him to Guilin to live with us. Her husband is a very honest person, the natural filial to the elderly, just son of kindergarten affected by our influence, the grandfather is also very respectful. As the work is more leisurely, that time, I always go to get off work early, as much as possible to accompany the elderly to speak. I thought that such a comfortable day will make my father satisfied, however, after a few days of fresh energy, the elderly clamored to go back home. I think, must be when I go to work, the elderly alone at home too lonely! So, in addition to give him a comfortable home, had to give him to create a good environment to help him and