有一位45岁的父亲,因读高中的儿子数学考试成绩不够理想,关起门来大打出手。儿子经不住毒打,一瘸一拐逃出家门,露宿街头,到饭店偷吃顾客的剩饭菜,后来被迫行窃,被判处劳教3年。在法庭上,这位父亲见到儿子,扑上去抱头痛哭,悔之晚矣。日常生活中,象这位父亲由于不懂得宽容而受害的事例可以举出很多,有的甚至闹出人命案子, A 45-year-old father, with his son’s high school math test scores unsatisfactory, closed the door to strike hard. His son could not withstand the beatings, limping away from the house, sleeping in the streets, eating the leftovers of customers in restaurants, and later being forced to steal and sentenced to 3 years of forced labor. In court, the father saw his son, rushed to cry, regret too late. In my daily life, there are many examples of how the father was victimized because he did not understand tolerance. Some even made life-threatening cases.