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清官难断家务事,中国的婆媳关系历来都是敌我矛盾。事实上旧社会并没有“婆媳天生是冤家”的说法。旧式教育让媳妇婆婆共认一个理儿:婆媳是领导和被领导的关系,身份应为主子和奴才。媳妇你嫁我家来,吃着我家粮、穿着我家衣、睡着我家炕,倘是没婆婆我生出我儿,谁给你活命的地儿?所以旧时媳妇望着婆婆直哆嗦才正常。现在的媳妇不指着婆婆的儿子给饭给衣给炕了,没有生存困扰,除却辈分,大家都是一张座椅上的平等同志,谁若想再拿婆婆恩威吓唬媳妇,或想在媳妇面前世袭体面地位,人家媳妇不干了、媳妇们如今对男人开口就是:“我吃你的了喝你的了用你的了?凭什么听你的?”她连她男人的账都不买,岂能买她男人的妈的账啊。
It is always a contradiction between the mother-daughter relationship and the mother-daughter relationship in China. In fact, the old society did not “mother-in-law is a natural enemy ” argument. Old-fashioned education allows the law-abiding wife and mother share one reason: mother-in-law is the relationship between leadership and leadership, identity should be masters and minions. Your wife married my family, eating my family food, wearing my family clothing, sleeping in my house kang, if no mother I gave birth to my child, who gave you a live child? So the old daughter looking at her mother shivering was normal. Now the daughter-in-law is not pointing to the mother-in-law’s son to give clothes to the kang, and no survival problems, except for seniority, we are all a seat on the equal comrades, who would like to take Granville Nvwei scare wife, or want to Daughter-in-law before the hereditary status, others do not quit, the daughter-in-law now to the man is: “I eat you drink your use of yours? Why listen to you?” She even her husband’s account Do not buy, how can we buy her man’s mother’s account ah.