我们家乡有句俗语:小子稀罕花,管老婆叫妈。在大男子主义盛行的东北乡下,怕老婆是被人笑话的。可能潜移默化中受了这种风俗的影响,我从小就不喜欢花。16岁参加工作以来,从未在办公室里养过花,结婚成家之后,家里也从未摆过花。常见的花卉,除了在乡下认识的海棠、月季之外,再也叫不出其他花卉的名字。在我脑海深处潜伏的农民意识中,总觉得养花养鸟都是游手好闲之徒的玩意。 We have a proverbial hometown: kid rare flowers, his wife called mom. In the northeastern countryside where machismo is prevalent, he is afraid of his wife being joked. May subtly affected by this custom, I grew up do not like flowers. Since she was 16, she has never raised flowers in her office and has never had flowers at home since her marriage. Common flowers, in addition to the Begonia know in the country, outside the rose, no other flowers can no longer be called the name. Lurking in the depths of my mind peasant consciousness, always feel that flowers and birds are playful leisure stuff.