心理学认为自尊是一种精神需要,是人格的内核。维护自尊是人的本能和天性。为人处事若毫无自尊,脸皮太厚,不行;反过来,自尊过强,脸皮太薄,也不好。正确的原则是:从实际的需要出发,让自尊心像弹簧一样保持一定的弹性,能伸能缩。要想做到这点,你需要从以下的两个方面努力———一 Psychology that self-esteem is a spiritual need, is the personality of the kernel. Maintaining self-esteem is human instinct and nature. If there is no self-respect for doing things, the face is too thick, not; in turn, self-esteem is too strong, too thin-skinned, not good. The correct principle is: starting from the actual needs, so that self-esteem as a spring to maintain a certain degree of flexibility, can stretch. To do this, you need to work from the following two aspects --- one