总是羡慕那些无忧无虑的日子,总是渴望那份无拘无束的自由。尽管父母有时候会呵斥我们太贪玩,但我们毕竟不是孩子了。我们开始学习思考,学习着把责任负于尚显稚嫩的肩上。我们当中,有些人无拘无束,仿佛所有的压力都与他无关;有些人则倍感沉重,父母的期望、师长的关心不经意间变成了强大的压力,成败仿佛成了决定将来骄傲与否的基石;有些人则迈出稚嫩的步伐,审视自己的人生,把亲人的期望变作鼓励,尽管知道得失未必尽如己算,但却兢兢业业,尽心尽力去谱写青春脚步的开篇。当我们面对这些孩子的时候,我们不禁要问问自己,如何去引导他们?这是我们成人的责任,我们应该知道,引导他们成长的方向,首先要做的就是了解他们,不仅仅是知道,而是怀着与他们同样的心情,去体会,去珍惜他们心中的所有感觉。这样,我们就会成为他们的朋友,他们信赖和依靠的人。 Always admired those carefree days, always eager for free unfettered freedom. Although parents sometimes scold us for being too fun, we are not children after all. We began to learn to think and learn to put our responsibilities on the shoulders that are still tender. Some of us are unfettered, as if all the pressures have nothing to do with him; some people feel heavy, their parents’ expectations and teachers’ carelessness become inexplicable pressures, and success or failure seems to be the cornerstone of determining whether to be proud in the future. Some people took a tender step, looked at their own lives, and changed their expectations of their loved ones into encouragement. Although they knew that the gains and losses were not necessarily calculated as they were, they were conscientious and devoted themselves to writing the opening chapters of their youth. When we face these children, we can’t help asking ourselves, how can we guide them? This is the responsibility of our adults. We should know that to guide them in the direction of growth, the first thing to do is to understand them, not only to know But with the same feelings as theirs, they should realize and appreciate all the feelings in their hearts. In this way, we will become their friends, the people they trust and rely on.