在一次聚会上,有位女士给我留下的印象至今仍然很深:文雅、沉稳、善解人意,再加上真诚可人的微笑。这样温柔的女性,我并不是第一次遇见,但30岁以前的我崇尚我行我素,天马行空,对这样的温柔不以为然。年过而立,我认识了温柔。我以为,这是理性及精神成长的结果。其实,温柔是人类美好的品性,绝不应是女人的“专利”。在我看来,温柔 At a party, a lady left me an impression so far: gentle, steady and considerate, plus a sincere and pleasant smile. Such a gentle woman, I did not meet for the first time, but before the age of 30 I advocate their own way, abstract, dismissive of such gentle. Over the years, I met gentle. I think this is the result of rational and spiritual growth. In fact, gentleness is a beautiful character of mankind and should never be a woman’s “patent.” In my opinion, gentle