说到对孩子的教育,有这样一种说法:西方是“拇指文化”,专拣孩子的优点,竖起大拇指表扬:东方则是“食指文化”,专挑孩子的毛病,伸出食指指责。在中国传统的观念中,孩子的生命是父母给予的,而“一日为师,终身为父”的说法,也要求子女与学生要绝对尊重听从与孝敬顺从父母师长。虽然时代变迁,观念不断进步,很多父母师长都已改变做法,在许多事 Speaking of children’s education, there is such a saying: the West is the “thumb culture”, specifically the advantages of picking children, thumbs up recognition: the East is the “index finger culture”, specifically to pick the child’s problems, extended his index finger accused . In the traditional Chinese concept, the child’s life is given by his parents, while “one day as a teacher and lifelong father” also requires that children and students absolutely respect obedience and filial piety to their parents and teachers. Although the changing times, the concept of continuous improvement, many parents have changed the practice of teachers, in many things