对青春期的我而言,稳定的朋友、满满的自信很重要。儿子:我前阵子在南京,与你爸爸聊过“搬家”这个话题。但一旦搬家,你就得转学。所以,你的想法与意愿在我们是否搬家这个事中占了非常重要的比重。因为我深刻地感受到你对你学校的喜爱。你在学校里得到的成就感,你与同学之间的友情,老师对你的嘉许,这一切的一切,都让你变得越来越自信,越来越主动。这是我喜闻乐见的,对有过不怎么样的小学经历的你而言,这种学校体验,尤其可贵。 For adolescent I, stable friends, full of self-confidence is very important. Son: I spent a while ago in Nanjing, chatting with your dad “moving” this topic. But once you move, you have to transfer. So, your thoughts and wishes make up a very important part of whether we move or not. Because I deeply feel your love of your school. The sense of accomplishment you get at school, the friendship between you and your classmates, the teacher’s approval of you, all of this make you more confident and motivated. This is what I love to hear. For those of you who have had little experience in elementary school, this school experience is especially valuable.