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恋爱关系中,物质基础是第一。你与他都是芸芸打工者,辛苦赚得活命费,实属不易。没有出生贵族的福分,也没有独中彩票的财运,老老实实,兢兢业业,靠一双手换来一碗一筷。所谓逼人的生活,不单单是一日三餐,衣能蔽体如此微薄的愿望,只不过想生活得更好一点,丰富一点,体面一点罢了。从一开始就要明白,女子当自强。四肢健全,头脑聪颖,拿得出手的文凭,走得出去的仪态,不比任何人差。关键时候,存折上数字可以是傲视群雄的法宝。不得不说,恋人之间也分等级制。亦舒说,吃人家的饭,又想得到人家尊重,这是不可能的事。所以,分清楚该自己买单与该AA的各类消费,对于你挺直腰杆,在爱情中占据主动位置,至为关键。
In the relationship of love, the material foundation is the first. You and he are all migrant workers, hard-earned living expenses, it is not easy. No bounty was born aristocrats, there is no single lottery fortune, honest, conscientious, by a pair of hands in exchange for a bowl of chopsticks. The so-called pressing life, not just three meals a day, clothing can mask the meager desire, but to live a little better, a little rich, decent nothing more. From the very beginning, we must understand that women should be self-reliance. Perfect limbs, intelligent, take the diploma to get rid of go out of the instrument, no worse than anyone else. At the critical moment, the number on the passbook can be a magic weapon to the throne. Have to say, between lovers also hierarchical. Yi Shu also said that it is impossible to eat other people’s food and want others to respect it. Therefore, to distinguish between the individual pay for the AA and all kinds of consumption, for you straight up, take the initiative in the position of love, to the key.