我有一个小姐妹,全A生,一路名校,长相气质身材能力都无可挑剔。昨天她感慨地说:“我们就是劳碌命,为男朋友做了很多,对方总是不领情。还觉得我们管束得太多。”很多优秀的女孩,会觉得男朋友不够上进,不够努力,不知道自己要什么,总是摇摆不定。如果那女孩温婉一点,可能就闷在心里;如果强势一点的,就索性帮对方做决定,让对方朝着“正确”的路走。 I have a little sister, all A students, all the way to elite schools, appearance and temperament are impeccable bodybuilding capabilities. Yesterday, she said with emotion: “We are hardworking, done a lot for her boyfriend, the other party always does not appreciate .Also think we have too much control. ” Many excellent girls, will feel that her boyfriend is not progressive enough, not hard enough Do not know what you want, always wavering. If the girl is a little soft, she may feel bored; if she is a little stronger, she will help the other to make a decision and let the other side walk towards the “right” path.