她是在上世纪50年代初嫁给他的。那时候,她是梳着两条麻花辫子的女学生,他是英俊的解放军营长。欲嫁未嫁时,他告诉她,乡下家里已经有一个老婆了,老婆还为他生了两个孩子。他说,他们俩的事,要与老婆商量一下——老婆大他8岁,从小带他长大的。她很生气,哭了,像梨花沾雨。他哪受得了这个,连说算了算了,只寄了一纸解除婚约的证明回家。事 She was married to him in the early 1950s. At that time, she was a female student braiding two braids, he is handsome battalion commander. To marry unmarried, he told her that there was already a wife in the country’s home, and that his wife had given him two children. He said that both of them, to discuss with his wife - his wife he was 8 years old, grew up with him. She was very angry, crying, like pear rain. He could not afford this, even saying that forget, only sent a paper to terminate the marriage certificate to go home. thing