《围城》中的主人公方鸿渐的父亲方老先生,是迂腐的老乡绅,儿子走时,他有许多临别赠言吩咐儿子记着,成双成对地很好听,什么“咬紧牙关,站定脚跟”,“可长日思家,而不可一日恋家”等等。方鸿渐知道这些话虽然对自己说,而主要是方老先生记载在日记和回忆录里,让天下后世知道他老先生怎样地教子有方。方老先生闲着无事,忽然发现了自己,这种精神上的顾影自怜,使他写自传,写日记,研究心理学的人一望而知他是“语文狂”。 Fang Fang, the father of Fang Hongqiu, the protagonist of “The Besieged City”, was a slutty fellow. When his son was away, he had many parting words to tell his son to remember. It sounded good in pairs. What “clench on teeth” stood firm? “Heel”, “can be homesick for a long time, not a day to love home” and so on. Fang Hung-chien knew that these words were said to himself, but Mr. Fang Lao was mainly recorded in the diaries and memoirs, letting the world know how his old gentleman taught his children well. Mr. Fang Lao was idle and suddenly found himself. This mental self-pity helped him write his autobiography, write a diary, and people who studied psychology saw him as a “Chinese language madness.”