欲用人,先学会容人 匹夫见辱,拔剑而起,这是导致失败的根源,它表现人的器量窄小。 小不忍则乱大谋,忍的最要紧处就是要忍得住,所以忍就是要有一种宽大的胸襟与器量。它以退为进,并以此预示后来的成败,这也就成了弱者与强者的一种区别了。所以忍绝不意味着只咽气不吐出来。所谓吐出来,如越王勾践等那样,是一种吐法。当然平常人们忍一时之气,则常常是要时间和事实来作回答,这也是一种吐法。 总之,要做到忍得下,看得透,就要宰相肚里能撑船。 To use people, first learn to tolerate each person humiliation, pull the sword and rise, which is the root cause of failure, it shows that the amount of human narrow. Too little to chaos big plan, the most important thing to endure is to live with it, so forbearance is to have a broad-minded and quantity. It retreats, and in order to predict the success or failure, which has become a difference between the weak and the strong. So no endurance does not mean that only the throat does not spit it out. The so-called vomit, such as Yue Gou Jian so, is a vomiting. Of course, people often endure the moment, it is often time and facts to answer, this is a vomiting. In short, to be able to bear it, see through, it is necessary to prime minister belly can punting.