一个男人告诉我,男人有没有外遇,跟老婆好不好没有必然联系。有的男人娶一悍妇,动不动就河东狮吼,两口子打打闹闹白头到老;有的男人家有贤妻,色艺俱佳,却在外面偷臭鱼烂虾乐此不疲。所以,女人发现男人有外遇,追问男人我到底哪里不好,其实本来不是你的错,但是你非要追问,他只好找你的错了——如果你温柔,他就说你沉闷乏味;如果你不温柔,他正好说你不够女人。总之,你要他找你的错,他总是能找到 A man told me that men have no affair, and the wife is not necessarily not necessarily linked. Some men marry a scapegoat, Hedong roar at every turn, the couple slapstick white to the old; some men have a good wife, color art is superb, but outside the stingy stingy shrimp bored never tired. So, women find men have an affair, ask men in the end where I am not good, in fact, not your fault, but you have to ask, he had to find your fault - if you gentle, he said you dull; if You are not gentle, he just said you are not enough woman. In short, you want him to find your fault, he can always find