英国著名小说家艾略特曾经写道:“生命巨流中的黄金时刻稍纵即逝,除了沙砾之外我们别无所见;天使前来探访,我们却当面不识,失之交臂。”20世纪的美国人也有一句俗谚:“通往失败的路上处处是错失了的机会。”坐待幸运从前门进来的人,往往忽略了从后窗进入的机会。我们常把机会拟人化,误以为幸运之神真 Eliot, a famous British novelist, once wrote: “The Golden Hour in the Great Flow of Life flees, and we have nothing except gravel. When the angels came to visit us, we did not know each other well, and we missed.” 20 There is also a common saying among centuries Americans: “The path to failure is always a missed opportunity.” "Sitting fortunate enough to come in from the front door often overlooks the opportunity to enter through the rear window. We often take the opportunity to personification, mistakenly think the god of luck really