人年轻时,最容易相信自己是最聪明的,也最容易对他人产生幻想。自负聪明,就会自吹自擂、自高自大、盲目蛮干,弄得大家无法合作。很多有才的人就栽在这上面。人对自己的评价,和对他人的评价,通常是有两套标准的。杰克·伦敦在《海狼》中说:“每一个人都把自己当做钻石,而在别人眼中看起来,却只不过是钻石的同素异形体:碳。”很多情形之下,旁观者可以一眼就分出甲和乙之间的高下来,相去不可以用“里”计。但就算甲、乙之间,高下相去要以“光年”来计,低下的一个,仍然会认为自己和高上 When young people, the most likely to believe that they are the most intelligent, but also the most likely to create illusions for others. Self-conscious, self-assertive, arrogant, blind foolhardy, confused everyone. Many talented people planted on it. People’s own evaluation, and evaluation of others, usually there are two sets of standards. Jack London in the “sea wolf” said: “Everyone regarded himself as a diamond, but in the eyes of others looks, but it is only diamond allotropy: carbon.” In many cases, on the sidelines A person can be divided at a glance between the height of A and B, can not be used to “” in “dollars. However, even if A, B between the next phase should be based on ”light years " to count, the lower one, will still consider himself and the high