中国父子两代关系正在发生巨大变化,那种以父为主的单向沟通不再有效,而和孩子像朋友一样交流的“好哥们儿”关系越来越多,这反映的其实是从“家本位”到“人本位”的转变过程,即从强调个人要服从家庭,变为主张个体意识的独立。父子间的关系状态在中国封建进程中非常稳 The relationship between father and son in China is undergoing tremendous changes. The one-way communication based on the father is no longer valid, and the relationship between the “good buddies” and children who communicate like friends is increasing. This actually reflects From the “home-based ” to “human-based ” the process of change, from emphasizing that individuals should obey the family, to advocate the independence of individual consciousness. The relationship between father and son status in China’s feudal process is very stable