作家哈斯在《人与性》一书中指出:10%的美国女子有过被自己丈夫或同居者强奸的经历、而据我国一则近期权威调查资料显示,被调查的4049名城市妇女中,有113人承认有被丈夫强奸过的经历、很多时候,我们向往婚姻,是因为婚姻中的性爱原则,它要求排他性,平等性,自愿性,而有人一旦破坏婚姻性爱的原则,则他一定会受到惩罚,这不单单是道德上的,更会是法律上的惩罚。 Writer Haas pointed out in his book “Man and Sex”: 10% of American women have experienced rape by their own husbands or cohabitants. According to a recent authoritative survey in China, among 4049 urban women surveyed, , 113 people admitted that they had been raped by their husbands. In many cases, we are longing for marriage because of the principle of sex in marriage. It requires exclusivity, equality and voluntariness. However, once someone destroys the principle of marital sex, he will certainly Will be punished. This is not only moral but also legal punishments.