Q我新交的男朋友风趣幽默,还很会讲各种段子,属于很吸引女人的那款,没想到床上功夫实在不咋地,而且做爱时还很害羞,跟平日判若两人。他说床上不太行的男人嘴上都比较花哨,是这么回事吗?我们听说过许多刻板印象:长得帅的男人都花心,能说会道的男人都不可靠,处女座的人都很挑剔……随意地使用刻板印象是不负责任的,实际上是在贴标签,硬生生把每个不同的人往自己的经验里靠,贴一个标签,然后再不断 Q My new boyfriend is funny and humorous, and I’m still talking about all sorts of paragraphs. It is a very attractive piece for a woman. I did not expect my bed to work harder than usual. He said the bed is not too good man mouth is more fancy, is that going on? We have heard many stereotypes: handsome men are bothering to be able to talk to men are not reliable, Virgo are very picky ... ... It is irresponsible to feel free to use stereotypes, actually labeling, abruptly putting each different person in his own experience, attaching a label, and then continuing