学生是个特殊的群体,生活的圈子相对单纯一些。但尽管如此,师生之间交谈也容易发生语言伤害现象。例如,有的老师常常会说出这样的话:“为什么你的举止不像别的同学那样?”“为什么你总是想着自己而不曾想想别人?”等等。这些话有时难免会伤害学生的自尊心,造成不必要的心理压力。当然,学生对老师的话也要学会分析,要注意区别老师的话是伤害还是真诚的帮助,再做出反应,如果你面临的不是伤害,请不要进行过分的反应。如果你对真诚的帮助进行了反应,你应找出错误的原因,从中吸取教训。绝招一:让老师记住你的名字不少老师在新生入学后相当长时间内,也常常记不住班级里每一位同学的名字,“张冠李戴”时有发生。你应该想办法让老师尽快把你同你的名字对上号,才能更好地处理师生沟通。所以,你至少每个学 Students are a special group. The circle of life is relatively simple. However, in spite of this, language and harm are also prone to occur between teachers and students. For example, some teachers often say something like this: “Why don’t you behave like other students?” “Why do you always think about yourself without thinking about others?” and so on. Sometimes these words will inevitably hurt students’ self-esteem and cause unnecessary psychological stress. Of course, students should learn to analyze the teacher’s words. We must pay attention to whether the teacher’s words are hurt or sincere, and then respond. If you are not facing harm, please don’t react excessively. If you respond to sincere help, you should find the wrong reasons and learn from them. One trick: Let the teacher remember your name Many teachers often remember the names of every classmate in the class after they entered the school for a long time. “Zhang Guan Li Dai” happens from time to time. You should think of ways for teachers to quickly identify you with your name in order to better handle teacher-student communication. So, at least you learn each