我曾经有幸遇到一个同事,我们之间从来没有过严格意义上的师生关系,但我始终尊称他为老师。这并非因为他的年纪比我大了许多的缘故,而是因为他给我讲过的一段话:“人生只有一次,也只有短短几十年的时间,你无法经历各种各样的事情,一旦决策失误,你又不可能让时光倒流,回到某个出发点上来重新进行选择。所以,多读些文学作品,让自己充当书中各种各样的角色,用他们的眼光从不同的角度来观察这个世界,于是你就像活了千百回,就会更准确地把握这个世界。当你把对社会的理解和自己的理想结合起来,对自己的未来进行一番设想时,你就会少走许多弯路,你就会活得很充实。有空的时候,你不妨读读发掘特洛伊古城遗址的施里曼先生的故事,看看人家是怎样安排自己的一生的。”这个故事我读过不止一遍,受益匪浅,好东西不敢独吞,讲出来和大家一同分享: I was once fortunate enough to meet a colleague. We never had a strict teacher-student relationship, but I always called him a teacher. This is not because he is a lot older than I am, but because of what he told me: “Life is only once, only a matter of decades, you can not go through all sorts of Things, once you make a mistake, you’re not going to let the clock back in time and go back to a starting point to make a new choice, so read more about literature and let yourself act as a book with a variety of roles that differ from their perspective When you look at the world from the angle of view, and you live thousands of times, you will grasp the world more accurately.When you combine your understanding of society with your own ideals and make some assumptions about your own future, You will have a lot less detours and you will have a very fulfilling life.When you are free, you might as well read the story of Mr. Schliemann who discovered the ruins of the ancient city of Troy and see how people are planning their own life. ” I read this story more than once, benefited a lot, a good thing not to be swallowed, tell it and share with you: