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我结婚时,正是国家改革开放的第四个年头。由于父母都是老党员,对我们要求很严格,结婚也是:不声张,不能大操大办。于是,结婚那天,遵父母之命,我自己乘公交车去新娘家接亲,又乘公交车把新娘和她的亲戚接到我家。在接亲回来的路上,正巧遇到单位的一位老同志,我俩在公交车上聊了一站地,他竟然没察觉我是新郎官儿。我的婚礼极其简单。在家摆了两桌席,双方直系亲属在一起吃顿饭,这门亲就算结下了。在送新娘亲属走的时
When I got married, it was the fourth year of the state’s reform and opening up. Since parents are all old party members, they have strict demands on us and they are married: they can not speak loudly, and they can not make a big difference. So, the wedding day, following the parents’ orders, I went to the bride’s home by bus to pick up my benevolent, and took the bride and her relatives by bus to my house. On the way back to my parents, happened to meet an old comrades of the units, we talked about a stop in the bus, he did not even realize I was a groom official. My wedding is extremely simple. Placed two tables at home, both immediate relatives to eat together, even if the close of the door. When sending relatives to go to bride