问:我于近期结婚,有必要进行婚前性商量吗?答:一般人婚前极为忌讳在异性面前谈论性的问题。一对恋人只要“两情相悦”就可以结婚成家了,极少考虑到对方的性健康状况、性欲度及性能力大小等问题,而这些正是许多夫妻婚后性生活不和谐的重要原因。因此,结婚前男女双方应到医院去接受性健康的查询,了解双方是否有性疾病及性心理是否健康。每个人的性欲强度是不相同的,如何获悉对方的情况呢?惟一的方法是双方“抹开“面子,真实地告诉对方自己的情况。性欲强度分为两个层次:第 Q: I recently married, it is necessary to premarital sexual consultation it? A: Most people premarital taboo in front of heterosexual talk of sexual problems. A pair of lovers can get married and become married as long as they are happy with each other’s feelings. They seldom consider the other’s sexual health, sexuality and the size of their sexuality, which are the important reasons for the marital discord of many couples . Therefore, both men and women before marriage should go to the hospital to receive sexual health inquiries, to understand whether both sexually transmitted diseases and sexual well-being. Each person’s sexuality is not the same intensity, how to learn each other’s situation? The only way is that both sides “wipe” face, tell the truth each other’s own situation. Sexual intensity is divided into two levels: the first