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从四五岁开始,我们的孩子知道怕黑了。到了晚上,尽管房间里开着灯,家长却不能离开片刻,否则,他很快就会感到害怕,并且迅速地丢下手中的东西,飞跑到大人身边,寸步不离。不管家长怎样劝他,依然抹不去他心里的恐惧。记得小时候我们也怕黑。现在虽然做了父母,但孤身一人走在黑道里,心也会提起来。但这是社会经验的反映,小孩子们心里不该有这层阴影。我们曾问过孩子,你到底怕什么呢?他总是不回答我们。记得仅一次,他入睡前说:“我怕怪鸭到咱家来。”我们曾想,以后不让孩子再接触这些鬼怪的东西,
From the age of four or five, our children know that they are afraid of darkness. In the evening, though the lights were on in the room, parents could not leave for a moment, otherwise he would soon be scared and quickly dropped his hand and flew to adults and walked away. No matter how parents advise him, still can not erase the fear of his heart. I remember when we were young, we were afraid of darkness too. Although now parents, but walk alone in the underworld, the heart will mention it. But this is a reflection of social experience. Children should not have this shadow in their hearts. We have asked children, what are you afraid of? He always does not answer us. I remember only once before he fell asleep said: “I was afraid to duck to our house. ” We have thought, do not allow children to touch these ghost things later,