我与妻子是包办婚姻。婚后我们一直感情不和,我心中常有离婚的念头,但为了孩子,我一直忍着。现在儿子上大学了,我打算离婚。可当我下了决心后,却犹豫了,虽说感情不和,但她也没什么不好,只是我们没有共同语言,突然离婚,不仅怕她受不了,也觉得有些对不住她,又怕儿子反对。这段时间我心思挺重,睡不好觉。请问我该怎么办?信阳李之稳李之稳读者:从你的话语中可看出,你与妻子没有 My wife and I are arranged marriage. We have been sentimental after marriage, my heart often divorce idea, but for children, I have been endured. Now that my son is in college, I plan to divorce. But when I resolved, but hesitated, although the feelings of discord, but she also not bad, but we do not have a common language, sudden divorce, not only afraid of her can not stand, but also felt sorry for some of her son, afraid of his son Oppose. During this time my mind is very heavy, sleep well. What should I do? Xinyang Li Zhiwen Li Wen readers: From your discourse you can see that you and your wife did not