不知从何时起,而升(化名)开始不愿意去奶奶家,尤其年节时。她很坦率,“我有俩姑、俩婶,加上我奶,我是1对5,你说我哪能对过她们啊!”所谓对不过,是这5位女性长辈逢她便问:“有对象没?咋还不处啊?”接着便是全家大讨论。往往让她如坐针毡,颜面尽失。尤其她一想到自己是奶奶的大孙女,尤其表妹结婚后。年龄已破三的而升,在今年“五一”前经人介绍看了一个对象。俩人用微信约定后在一家茶馆见了面。 I do not know since when, and l (a pseudonym) began to reluctant to go to grandma, especially in New Year’s Day. She is very frank, “I have two girls, two aunt, plus my milk, I am a pair of 5, you say I can pass them ah!” The so-called right, however, is that these five female elders every time she Q: “Are there any objects? There is no place yet? ” Then there is a big discussion in the whole family. Often let her sit needle felt, face lost. In particular, she thought of her grandmother granddaughter, especially cousin after marriage. The age has broken three and rise, this year “51 ” was introduced to read an object. Two people met with a Wechat in a teahouse.