当别人拒绝我时,我不能拒绝自己我选择南下打工与爱情有关。原因很简单,我女友龙梅的家人因为我是个穷小子而拒绝我和她交往。为了证明自己能让心爱的人过上好日子,1994年,我只身南下。第二年年初,我有了一点积蓄,这时龙梅辞职来到了我身边。我们再一起来到深圳。有中专学历的龙梅应聘到龙华一家合资厂做储备干部, When others refuse me, I cannot refuse myself that my choice of working south is related to love. The reason is very simple. My girlfriend Longmei’s family refused to associate with her because I was a poor boy. In order to prove that he can make a good life for his beloved, in 1994, I went south alone. At the beginning of the second year, I had some savings and Longmei resigned to come to me. We will come to Shenzhen again. Long Mei, who has a secondary school education, applied for a reserve cadre at a joint venture plant in Longhua.