在孩子成长的过程中,与父母的关系模式会被内化,成为心理上的内在父母和内在小孩。研究表明,在中国,67.1%的家长曾对孩子进行情感虐待。常见的虐待方式有:忽视,否定,贬低,指责,欺骗和控制。被控制的孩子在心理和行为上会表现出低情商,低自我价值感,行为退缩等特点。通过疗愈受伤的内在小孩,成长为一个心理健全的人。 In the process of child development, the relationship model with parents will be internalized and become psychological inner parents and inner children. Studies show that 67.1% of parents in China used to emotionally abuse their children. Common forms of abuse are: neglect, denial, belittling, blaming, cheating and controlling. Controlled children in psychology and behavior will show low emotional intelligence, low self-worth, behavior and other characteristics of withdrawal. By healing the injured inner child, grow into a mentally healthy person.