在广东人的婚宴上，最后一道甜品一定是百合莲子羹，它取“百年好合，连生贵子”之意，既明确了婚姻的目的，也突出了爱情的主题。这种以美食寓意爱情的表达方式，是传统婚姻模式的产物。大多数传统婚姻开始时并没有爱情，它是经过长时间的磨合后才产生的。当然这都是以前的事 In the Cantonese wedding, the last dessert must be the lily lotus soup, which take “a hundred years of good together, even your son” meaning, not only clearly the purpose of marriage, but also highlights the theme of love. This kind of expression of love with food is the product of the traditional mode of marriage. Most traditional marriages do not have love at first, and they are produced after a long time of running in. Of course, this is all before