许多年轻夫妇刚刚结婚,感到还有不少的事情需要安排,业余学习啦,事业啦,等等,有的感到经济上也比较紧,所以,往往愿意过一二年或三五年再有孩子,这种心情是完全可以理解的,也是应当受到家长和社会的关心和支持的。结婚后暂时不愿意有孩子,光有主观愿望是不行的。靠夫妇少在一起,靠分居,行不行呢?双方自愿,适当这样做也未尝不可;但,这样做有时容易影响夫妻感 Many young couples just got married and I feel that there are still many things that need to be arranged, such as amateur learning, career development, and so on. Some feel that they are economically tighter. Therefore, they are often willing to spend another year or three or five years on their children , This kind of mood is totally understandable and it should also be under the care and support of parents and the community. Not willing to have children after marriage, just have a subjective desire is not enough. By the couple together, rely on separation, okay? The two sides volunteered, it is not a bad idea to do so; However, this sometimes easily affect the sense of husband and wife