耄耋之年的父亲,身患各种老年病,而且已经偏瘫12年,大脑做过两次大手术,患有抑郁症。他用冷幽默来对付抑郁症。我与父亲远隔重洋,约定好固定时间通电话。一次,我问候他:“你好吗?”他的回答是:“一切都好,没有烦恼。”“都这样了,能没烦恼吗?”我问。他又回答:“一切都好,不缺烦恼。”下次,我再问候他:“你好 The father of childhood, suffering from a variety of geriatric diseases, and hemiplegia has been 12 years, the brain has done two major operations, suffering from depression. He used cold humor to deal with depression. My father and I separated by the ocean, agreed to a fixed time on the phone. Once, I would like to greet him: ”How are you? “ His answer is: ”Everything is good, no worries. “ ”All this, can you not bother?“ I asked. He replied: ”Everything is fine, no shortage of troubles. “ Next time, I would like to greet him again: ”Hello