在我们的教子过程中,很多人认为,孩子犯了小错可以不问,犯了大错就必须加以批评。其实应该正好相反。孩子们由于年龄小,判断能力远不及大人成熟,他们时常会犯错误。但即使是孩子,也具有区分好坏的基本判断能力,如果犯了严重的错误,内心深处一定会有所察觉。虽然不知原因,他也会自问是否做错了。而虽然意识到自己错了,一旦有人指出来,就会产生反感,并有可能将错就错下去,这点大人小孩都不例外。就说上高中的孩子吧,只要家长劝他们努力用功,他们必会顶嘴说:“知道了,别再啰唆了!”说归说,他们还是不肯用功,有时甚至会故意跑到外面去玩。 In our bestial parents, many people think that if a child makes a mistake, he or she must make a mistake and make a big mistake. In fact, it should be the opposite. Due to their young age, children are far less able to judge than adults, and they often make mistakes. But even children have the basic ability to distinguish between good and bad. If you make a serious mistake, you will certainly be aware of the depths. Although unknown reasons, he would also ask if he did something wrong. And although aware of their own mistakes, once someone pointed out, it will produce resentment, and may be wrong to go wrong, this is no exception for adults and children. When they say they are going to high school children, as long as they persuade them to work hard, they must say, “You know, do not be kidnapped again!” They said, they are still reluctant to do anything and sometimes deliberately run outside Go play.