每个人都有自尊,即使是幼儿园的小朋友也有自己的尊严,我们每个人都渴望得到别人的赞美和夸奖,厌恶听到别人对自己的指责和批评,即使这种批评是有助于自己进步和发展的,是良药忠言,但如果批评伤害了我们的自尊,让我们无地自容,我们也不愿意接受他们的建议,甚至会错上加错,在错误的道路上越走越远。看看中国古代史,你就会发现那些为人正直,为了国家人民敢于仗义执言的忠臣,其下场一般都是很悲惨的,而那些阿谀奉承会拍马屁的小人往往深得圣宠,这是人性的弱点之一。我们必须要了解这个弱点,既能使对方认识到自己的错误,又乐于改正,要做到这一点就需要掌握批评的技巧。 Everyone has self-esteem. Even children in kindergartens have their own dignity. Each of us desires to be praised and praised by others. He hates to hear criticisms and criticisms from others even though such criticism can help him progress and Development is good medicine, but if criticism hurts our self-esteem and makes us feel helpless, we are not willing to accept their suggestions. We will even make mistakes and make further mistakes. Look at ancient Chinese history, you will find those honest, for the people of the country to dare to practice their righteous loyalists, their fate is generally very miserable, and those flattering flattery villain is often won the pet, which is human nature One of the weaknesses. We must understand this weakness, both to make each other aware of their own mistakes, and willing to correct, to do this we need to master the critical skills.