女人是爱自己的,姑娘时候的女人尤其是这样。围城中的女人则不尽然,她们多半更爱自己的男人。即便偶或对自己的关照,想法也与少女判然有别。譬如美容,同为浓妆淡抹,前者多为展示一己的靓丽,后者多在讨取男人的欢心。女为悦己者容,岂只容,围城中的女人大凡做事、想问题,总爱围绕自己的男人。 Women love themselves, especially when girls are women. The women in the siege are not always the case, most of them more love their own men. Even even or care for themselves, the idea is also different with the girl. For example, beauty, with the same make-up, the former mostly to show their own beautiful, the latter mostly seek men’s favor. Women for their own capacity, not only capacity, the siege of the woman who generally do things, think the problem, always love their men around.