日常生活中,常常会听到一些父母这样评价他的孩子:挺聪明的,就是不好好学(或者就是学习不好)。这是为什么? 孩子与孩子之间天生的智力差别一般不大,但为什么一些孩子学得好,而一些学得不好?一些家长或老师经常把原因归结为“家庭教育差异”、“学习能力与学习方法不当”、“学习习惯不好”、“不努力”等等。其实在这些原因的背后,隐藏着一个最重要的本质因素——非智力因素的差异问题,智力因素只是孩子学习好的一个前提与基础,能否学好,与孩子的非智力因素有着直接的关系,二者相辅相成,缺一不可。比如说,一个 In daily life, some parents often hear of their children as saying, “It is very clever, that is, not learning well (or learning poorly). Why is this? The inherent intellectual differences between children and children are generally modest, but why do some children learn well while others learn poorly? Some parents or teachers often attribute the causes to ”differences in home education“ ”Improper learning ability and learning methods“, ”poor learning habits“, ”no hard work" and so on. In fact, behind these reasons, hidden one of the most important essential factors - the difference between non-intellectual factors, intelligence is only a prerequisite for learning and children, can learn well, and children have a direct relationship between non-intellectual factors , The two complement each other, are indispensable. For example, one