心语姐姐:我儿子刚1岁多,因为老公工作忙,这一年多来,几乎是我一个人带孩子。我父母去世得早,婆婆来帮我带了几个月,对孩子一点也不上心,孩子发烧了,她还出去和别人打麻将,我说她几句,她就闹着要回家,我真的很生气!摊上这样自私的婆婆,我该怎么办?小凤小凤妹妹:我想你首先要弄明白一点,那就是这是你的孩子而不是婆婆的孩子,她能帮你带,是情分而不是本分,既然是情分,你就不要认为 Xinyu Sister: My son just 1 year old, because her husband busy with work, over the past year, almost I alone with children. My parents died early, my mother brought me to help bring a few months, the children did not care, the children had a fever, she went out and play mahjong, I said she a few words, I am really angry! Strange such a selfish mother-in-law, what should I do? Xiao Feng Xiaofeng sister: I think you must first make it clear that this is your child rather than her mother’s child, she can help you Belt is the love rather than the duty, since it is the sentiment, you do not think