与本村姑娘张群香订婚时,我才17岁。她比我小1岁。那年冬天,她父亲病逝,母亲也病倒了,她弟弟才9岁,我被突如其来的灾难吓倒了。当时,我也犹豫过,想退了这门亲事,但我被她的坚强打动了——她放弃了学业,毅然挑起了家庭的重担。我们好像从十六七岁的少年一下子成了大人。就这样撑了几年,1996年她家的房子倒了,连住的地方都没有了,她的精神几乎崩溃。万般无奈,她给《农家女》杂志写 When I was engaged with my girl Zhang Qun, I was 17 years old. She is 1 year younger than me. That winter, when her father died and her mother fell ill, her brother was 9 years old and I was intimidated by a sudden catastrophe. At that time, I also hesitated to want to retire this marriage, but I was impressed by her strong - she gave up her studies, resolutely provoked the family burden. We seem to be adults from the age of 16 or 17. In this way for a few years, in 1996 her house fell down, and even live in no place, and her spirit almost collapsed. Reluctantly, she wrote “Farm Girl” magazine