“自我”问题的研究由来已久,人类一直在不断的发现自我,反思自我。自我认识包括自我评价,个体自我评价活动的途径也同自我认识的途径相似,简单说来就是外求和内省。内省在自我评价活动中更为重要,许多因素影响着自我评价,造成其发生偏差。其中最容易被忽视的一点就是人的内心的恐惧这一主观因素,这需要引起人们的重视,也是本文探讨的重点之一。 “Self ” The study of the problem for a long time, mankind has been constantly find ourselves, self-reflection. Self-awareness, including self-evaluation, self-evaluation activities of individuals is also similar to the way of self-awareness, in a nutshell is external seeking and introspection. Introspection is more important in self-evaluation activities, and many factors affect self-evaluation, causing it to deviate. One of the most easily overlooked is the subjective fear of the human heart, which needs people’s attention, but also one of the focuses of this article.