实现教育现代化的前提就是要实现教育民主化。平等的师生关系是实现教育现代化的前提。教师和学生不应该是一种对立的关系,新型师生关系应该是一种平等和谐的关系。它的核心是师生心理相容,心灵的互相接纳,形成师生至爱的、真挚的情感关系。它应该体现在:一方面,学生自身能够在与教师的平等对话后自身 The precondition of realizing education modernization is to realize the democratization of education. Equal relationship between teachers and students is the prerequisite for the modernization of education. Teachers and students should not be a kind of antagonistic relationship, the new type of teacher-student relationship should be an equal and harmonious relationship. It is the core of teachers and students psychological compatibility, spiritual acceptance of each other, forming a teacher-student love, sincere emotional relationship. It should be: on the one hand, students themselves can be themselves on an equal footing with teachers